Vacationing this week in Arizona has been a wonderful experience. Not only is it my first time experiencing the southwest but I have also has a passing interest and curiosity in the Old West. Though not an expert in any sense of the word on the topic, I have enjoyed learning about personalities like Wyatt Earp and Billy the Kid, Doc Holiday and Wild Bill. I have seen the movies- Tombstone, Wyatt Earp, Young Guns 1 and 2, etc.- and I watched each episode of Deadwood.
All this is an introduction to illustrate my glee when my brother-in-law suggested that, while in Sedona, we take a morning and go horseback riding. I did not have to be asked twice.
The scenery was beautiful and our horses were walking single-file, making conversation a bit more challenging but giving rise to other opportunities. And so I reflected upon our past, and the movies and shows I had seen, and the wonder and majesty of the Arizona desert. Needless to say, I walked away with some profound lessons- none of them new, by the way, but each of them demonstrated anew and I am filled with a fresh desire to implement them.
Lesson 1: Know the Horse
Each horse has a different personality- some are gentle and some are wild, some are tame and some feel restricted by the saddle (and, no doubt, the weight resting on the saddle). I asked our wrangler about the horse upon which I was riding and he gave me insight which made the ride all the more enjoyable. For example, learning that the horse is young and a bit unfamiliar with the terrain led me to maneuver the horse more gently, to ease up on the reins and let the horse feel his way along the path. I imagine that if I were to push the horse to move faster, to drift off of the path, the horse would have been scared and may have reacted in ways I could not have predicted. But patience and understanding made all the difference. I only hope that I can apply those same disciplines to professional situations- taking the time to understand the complexities of those with whom I work instead of remaining focused solely on my own agenda. I imagine that kind of leadership- taking the time to know, to really know, our partners along the journey- will aid in meeting success each and every time.
Lesson 2: Know the Terrain
Not knowing the path of our journey was exciting, for sure; but it was also nerve-wracking. I could not see where we were going, from where we came, and could not chart a course accordingly. Vision- both forward reaching and reflecting backwards- are instrumental in filling me with a sense of purpose, mission, and managing my own expectations. That said, it was inspiring to let go of the plan and just “go with it” for even an hour. And when our tour came to an end, I truly felt as if it had just begun.
Lesson 3: Look Up
Riding along it would have been so easy- so easy- just to look down at the trail, to make sure the horse was on the path, to anticipate where I needed to lean- whether we were going uphill and I needed to lean forward or going downhill and needing to recline. But I had only looked down, I have missed some of the most beautiful and profound landscapes I have ever seen. The message is to look up- to look up from our tasks, to look upon our technology, to look up- and see the wonder of the world all around us.
As I continue along this relaxing and inspiring vacation, I know that the best is yet to come: The Grand Canyon. With these three lessons in mind, I feel that I am spiritually poised to make the most of my remaining days in Arizona. And I can’t wait to see what the rest of the day will bring.
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